Hello lovely Empath,

Beware of all things you read on the internet. The term “energy sucker” is a common one out there and really this is a label that’s not quite true, it depicts a manipulative action, of someone trying to get something from you. In most cases, this is far more innocent than it looks.

It’s all an energy game. You just keep saying yes to things that you don’t want to do, you don’t want to say yes, you want to say no. What’s going on here?

You know meeting the same types of people who generate the same patterns with you give you a wonderful opportunity for healing. To delve a bit deeper into yourself, to discover some things that release you from repeating situations that drive you mad.

You can’t see energy which can make it tricky to understand what’s going on beneath the surface. All people learn patterns of behaviour in childhood, designed to get the results that they want.

A child that works out if they keep on …. and on …. and on that they will eventually get what they want has developed a successful strategy. This isn’t manipulative, it’s being human. It’s based on “what is it that I need?” And “how do I get it?”.

Adults continue these patterns into relationships without even realising that a pattern exists. You won’t be aware of your own patterns but they are there. So these patterns continue, even when they are not wanted anymore and they’re driving everyone crazy.

How are the people in your life pulling on your energy to do what you don’t want to do? What behaviours and strategies are being used?

The most important thing to do here is to look at your need to give in to the energy pull. What is your pattern? What is it that you are trying to achieve for yourself by saying “yes” when you don’t want to? Is it to please, to feel accepted, to feel good about yourself? How did you develop this strategy?

Looking into this you can then decide whether you repeat the same game or refuse to play any longer.

Remember that people will not realise that they are pulling on your energy. They are merely repeating patterns of unconscious behaviour, and if it’s unconscious, they are not aware of it. You’ll see when you look at your own patterns that it takes a lot of self awareness to uncover it.

On this basis, are people really “energy suckers” or are you an “energy giver”?

I’ve created a transformational and online programme for you to get the tools and support you need to protect your own energetic space. This is for you to take control over which energies you choose to allow in, to doscover the gift of being an Empath rather than the curse. You can find out how you too can be in control of your own energetic and emotional balance so that you are not being pulled by other people’s energy here.

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Much love.

Jan 💜